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Self-cultivate Parents Themselves Before Educating The Children

Author : Anita zhu


Someone said, raising children is the transformation and upgrade of self-cultivation to parents once again. In investigation, it is not hard to discover, the root of a lot of parenting problem lies in parents themselves.

To supply early education knowledge

Few parents are able to teach a child inherently and few parents can naturally become parenting ace. To be the successful parents, you need to constantly enrich new knowledge. Society that a child's growth environment are changing, so upbringing way also should be kept improving. In traditional education mode of parent-child, mostly in children education parents use authority, and punishment is the more authoritative education method. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents step out his growth experience, and adjust their education ideas.

To listen to children with patience

Parents must take the time to know more about children, and then you will know how to guide your children. When children make inappropriate behavior, parents need to understand what the reason is for this. When the parents has understood child's idea, and tried to help my child to solve the problem, perhaps will find children's behavior in fact are understandable, and has also released a lot of negative emotions.

To let children to experience

If a child always cannot listen to the adults' words, so in the premise of ensuring safety and no bad consequences, parents can also let children feel the consequences. Through own practical experience, the child will have a full understanding that how correct and important the parents' education is.

To negotiate with children

Don't always ask children to live according to adults' mind, so that not just kids are painful, even adults are also painful. Children are also human beings, and of course had the things they want to do. To respect children and step back perhaps is a good method. Such as when children want to jump on sofa, but parents have things to think, they can ask children to jump on the bed of the bedroom, or ask him jump later, or after parents handling things, then take the children to the park to heartily jump.

Do not discipline the children when you are angry

In extreme situations of anger, parents cannot take a rational way to discipline their children. So, when parents anyway cannot calm down, I advise that parents temporarily leave the scene, or transfer their attention to do something else, like to call a friend to chat, listen to music, etc. After calming down again, they van talk with children. When the children's emotion is stable, you may tell some vivid stories to inspire children.

To fix ambitions for their children

Sometimes parents expect too much, often take standard the parents cannot do (maybe parents thought can do, but actually never do to request a child. Want to know, children are still small, so it is normal that they have active, stubborn, forgetful and other performance. If parents really have requirement to the children, they also somewhat must consider a child's growth situation, don't always take a magnifying glass to look at the child's behavior.


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