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Wedding Counseling

Author : Vikaas Vohra


         


We help couples obtain a well balanced and mature attitude in dealing with the changes contributed about by wedding in the following stages:

A. Pre Marriage Counseling : It involves counseling done on a couple and their respective people prior to a marriage and comprises of the following:

1. Our qualified psychologists answer queries on a one to one basis helping couples get clear of any negative emotional baggage that they may carry into the marriage.

2. Once the couple is brought into a neutralized plane, they are given the scope to
express their expectations and obligations in the marriage towards each other and towards each other’s respective families.

3. The next step is to guide them to understand how to relax and provide an vent to their unknown inhibitions about marriage. This procedure requires instilling a sense of confidence in the duo to grasp the new change with a positive frame of mind for a satisfactory married life.

4. Once counseling of the couple is over the respective families too needs counseling for the new change that is going to influence them in more ways than one and make them aware of those.

B. Post wedding Counseling: In post marriage counseling , married couples are given support on working out a practical set of options to any trouble that might have crept up in the wedding. Such problems could be solved in the following ways:

1. Identification of problem : The first step entails the identification of the trouble, if any whether or not imaginary or actual that is disturbing the relationship.

2. Addressing the problem: The next step is to take up the difficulty with a pragmatic approach and locate a set of viable options.

3. Implementation of Solutions: Once the solution is worked out the pair is given time to integrate those options into their living and cause about encouraging improvements into the marriage.

4.Separation: If in spite of all efforts, the marriage does not seem to be anyplace reaching a resolution then , it becomes very significant to consider a separation.

5 .Contemplation of Divorce: If none of the above mentioned guidelines prove meaningful, it is better to settle for an agreeable termination of the matrimony and locate ways to acquire a cost effective means of divorce.


C. Divorce Counseling: Separation counseling comes into play once all pains at reaching a constant resolution fails. It results in being imperative in certain situations and circumstances where the bond has soured further than any scope of repair and rehabilitation.

In a separation, apart from the lives of the duo , the kid or children born from the marriage , the respective families of the pair etc are affected in diverse ways. Resolution of matters relating to maintenance, share of responsibility in bringing up the children involved etc, should be studied in detail and reached at a concluding resolution.

D. Single Parenting: In conditions where the children can be either with their mother or their father post at a period, post separation , the notion of lone parenting comes into play. Kids in a broken down marriage are victims of anxiety, anxiety, purposelessness, and despair in varying degrees. It brings a sense of insecurity in the children with respect to their expectations. Thus, to minimize the pessimistic implications of the divorce on the children it is extremely important to discover out as to which parent is more proficient of giving them a more well balanced and resourceful existence.

E. Re-Marriage Counseling: Counseling for remarriage entails releasing the individual from the clutches of the unconstructive experience that he/she/ had in the previous marriage and giving her faith that there are likelihood of a contented life in a new marriage.


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