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Child Custody: Keep The Decision In The Family
Author : Lucille Uttermohlen
Copyright (c) 2010 Lucille Uttermohlen
My clients have hired guardian ad litems who have done a good job of investigating their custody claims. However, they have also been ripped off by people who take sides, and judges who don't think for themselves. The result can be that a child ends up in a situation that is not necessarily in her best interest, and that can be down right damaging.
As I said, not all "GALs" are bad. I had one recently who did a good job. His report was not in my client's favor, but I could see that he had done a lot of work before he came to his conclusion.
He visited each of the parent's homes several times, and investigated their medical records, job histories and references. He reported both sides strengths and weaknesses in an honest and fair way.
My next "GAL" report wasn't so reliable. The lady believed what she was told, and what the parents let her see, rather than dig deeper. The man had sense enough to have children's books and toys scattered around his living room when the GAL came to see him. He lied about the mother and her care of the kids. He swore the kids were never allowed to watch TV, and that he played with them and educated them every moment he was not at work.
My client was a careful housekeeper. The kids' toys and books were picked up when the GAL came to her house. She admitted that the kids watched TV occasionally, and that she had had a loud fight with her boyfriend when the kids were not there.
My client had had custody of the kids for a year and a half between the provisional hearing and the final decree. The father had been unwilling to change his visitation times so that his daughter could attend kindergarten. AS a result, she had to miss 2 days each week so that her mother wouldn't be held in contempt of court. The father didn't pay a dime of support, despite the fact that he had been ordered to, and that he had a good job throughout the case.
Nevertheless, the GAL recommended that the father be given custody. I wrote to the GAL several times, pointing out to her that her report was inaccurate, and providing the documents to her that would show her her errors. She finally responded by informing me that she never revisited a case, and I could take my complaints to the judge.
At the final hearing, I showed the judge what I had tried to show the "GAL". I had the mistaken impression he understood, and that he wasn't happy about the result. Nevertheless, 5 months later, when he finally made a decision, he adopted the report in its entirety, and ruled in the father's favor.
The conclusion parents should take away from this experience is that any custody case is risky. Some judges are careful, and generally make the right decisions. Some cases could go either way, in that both parents would provide a good home to the child, and are equally close to him. However, there are enough cases that no matter what the attorney does, and no matter what facts are before the judge, the wrong decision can be made.
If you and your spouse can't agree on custody, you are risking one of you being unhappy with the court's final decision. A guardian ad litem may do a good job of investigating your situation. However, it is possible that poor training or personal prejudices, or plain human stupidity may make a fair report impossible. The judge, too may not be able to reach a good decision because of inadequate information or the other reasons just mentioned. This is why it is always better if the parents can work together to come up with a parenting plan that is appropriate for their children and their family's circumstances.
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For good clear information about divorce issues, visit Lucille Uttermohlen at http://www.couple-or-not.com Send your legal and relationship questions to lucille@utter-law.com for a quick, thorough response.
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Tags: guardian ad litem, child custody, divorce, child's best interest
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Submitted : 2010-03-22 Word Count : 1 Popularity: 99 Times Viewed: 17
